Why Plan?

Your time is valuable, and it’s finite. There is only so much you can do and achieve in this life so why not try and do as much as you can? See as much as you can? Feel, touch, taste and love as much as you can, and truly, enjoy everything this world has to offer?

This is where planning comes in. Most of us are dreamers. We have big plans and ideas in our heads that one day, one day we will get to… if we have time.

Time is the only thing you truly have of any value in this world, and the way you spend it is important and shouldn’t just be overlooked.

Looking ahead.

Something as simple as planning next weeks dinners can save you hours of time and stress over the coming week. I get it can seem like from the outside that spending an hour on a Sunday to plan out the weeks meals might be a bit of a waste of time because who knows whether the kids will want pasta or pizza on Wednesday, or are you just going to have toast because you’ve got in late and just can’t be arsed. Fine. Thats true. But of the 6 out of 7 other days, you’ve had an idea of what dinner will be. The family knows what to expect, you’ve got the meal plan and a by product of that is a half decent shopping list already. You remove the wasted time and stress yelling “what do you want for tea?” 15 times down the hallway to indecisive grunts. You remove the stress of having to decide and scramble something together last minute and avoid silly arguments when everyone’s tired and hungry at the end of the day.

Obviously a pretty specific example and probably not relevant to everyone but it gives an idea of how a little plan early on, makes large gains in the long run.

Before you leave the house, you check for phone, keys and wallet/purse. Every time. Because you’re planning on needing to contact people, get in the car and back in the house and most likely buy something you don’t need or really want. That’s planning. You do all that out of habit every time you leave the house. The reasons may seem mundane and trivial and you probably don’t even notice you do it, but the two minutes of thinking ahead save you potentially hours of pain and your brain knows that already.

Labour Costs.

Your time is valuable, it does genuinely have a dollar value, and that value is determined by you. A business sees that and they determine that your X hours of labour is worth X dollar amount. After forty hours a week you end up with a pay check representing your times value… as determined by them.

Unfortunately thanks to the wonders of the industrial revolution, we’ve become accustom to not only (and thankfully) a far better standard of living, but a “clock in, clock off” work life that gives us that dollar value on our time. I don’t know about you, but my time is worth far more than what some company says it’s worth.

All successful companies plan ahead. They have a Business plan to draw the roadmap of their future prosperity. They have targets, KPI’s and deadlines and generally they achieve them BECAUSE they planned ahead. They found the shortest route to their destination and worked out the obstacles well in advance. Those plans did take time, energy and money to put together but the labour cost of building a plan far outweighed by the profits.

Business Life Plan.

Why not plan your life? Why not set some goals and actually hit them instead of just saying “I’d love to do…”. Imagine the sense of pride and achievement you’d feel if everything you’ve ever wanted to do, you did? You can have that feeling.

It will take time, like anything worthwhile. You will only make progress with small, deliberate steps.

To simplify. Pick a time frame. Say this year and we’ll divide the year in to neat three month quarters. For each quarter we’ll set a goal. That gives us twelve weeks to achieve some pretty big medium/long term goals. These goals can lead on to each other, or be completely independent, the choice is yours. For example:

Q1 – Pay off $3200 credit card debt

Q2 – Lose 10kg

Q3 – Learn a skill

Q4 – Save for holiday

Pretty broad stroke goals to achieve over a year, but each of them are MASSIVE things to accomplish in anyone’s lifetime, and you’re about to knock them out in 12 months. That’s a scary prospect and most of our monkey brains will shut off and put it in the too hard basket, so, we break it down further in to manageable chunks.

Q1.

January – Pay off $800 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

February – Pay off $800 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

March – Pay off $800 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

April – Pay off $800 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

Seeing $3,200 to pay off is terrifying, we’ve all been there and it seems like an immovable mountain. However, seeing smaller numbers helps us see things as tangible and possible. Try and imagine one million dollars … Could you? Now imagine a thousand. Done? you might not of ever physically held a juicy grand in your hands before, but you’ve seen it before and your unconscious can do the rest.

To make things even easier, and really give those baby step efforts to achievement. We’re going to break it down further to weekly targets for each month.

Jan Week 1 – Pay off $200 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

Jan Week 2 – Pay off $200 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

Jan Week 3 – Pay off $200 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

Jan Week 4 – Pay off $200 and don’t use card for unnecessary things

It looks redundant and tedious, and repetitive and boring. But success is boring repetitive steps. There’s nothing sexy about a little forethought, self control and repetition, but that’s literally all it takes to hit your goals every single time. That feeling of accomplishment and empowerment when you finally summit the mountain. That’s the sexy part!

It doesn’t have to be big.

Goals don’t have to be world changing, shoot for the moon style every time. Goals should make you feel fulfilled and happy and they can be anything you want them to be, as long as every day you take steps to achieve them.

New Years Resolutions

Same thing, every year…

There’s something so inviting about using the New Year as a sort of reset button for the outgoing year. All the bad habits we mean to get rid of, all the new hobbies, new adventures we’re going to get in to and start. January 1st is about as hard a stop as you can ask for. A new year, a new me! every… single… year.

So why do we even bother? Mostly because we just want to better ourselves. Whether it’s moving the extra couple of kilos that have snuck on this year, quitting smoking or something like going on a few more hikes and bingeing less telly, we just want to improve our life one way or another.

We get the most motivation we’ve had all year just after Christmas, we’re full of food and drink and generally pretty good cheer and we tell ourselves “why not?”.

What do we want to change?

All of our resolutions tend to fall in to just a couple of broad categories. Health, Self Improvement, Money and Family. All are pretty decent areas to focus on and about 50% of us really want to have a go at improving one or more of these things in our life.

Unfortunately only about 10% of us follow through. It’s a big enough phenomenon that we, as a species have actually dedicated a whole day to it. January 17th is “Resolution Ditch Day”. We’re actually so committed in our non-commitment that we even have a deadline for failure.

Health

Generally losing a bit of weight and hitting the gym more. Easing up on the drinking, smoking and fatty foods. The diet books and blogs start coming out again and we start loosely planning on going for a few walks with old friends or joining a sports club.

Self Improvement

We all want to “grow” and build ourselves and be the best us, Otherwise we wouldn’t bother making plans to change. It’s all about reading more books, getting up earlier, sleeping more. We want to learn a new skill or find a new hobby.

Money

The most wished for thing on the planet. The be all and end all of our pursuit of happiness on earth. Cold hard cash. We want better jobs and more money.

Family

Funnily enough the things that are most important to us, are actually one of the last things we set goals for. We want to start families, do more with our partners, spend more time with the kids and extended family. Most of us forget to spend the quality time in this area for the better part of the year chasing abs, fishing and working all hours for extra pay, then regret it and try and “be better” next year.

Why do we fail?

Prettt simple answer. Good things take time and hard work.

Thats honestly all there is to it. We set ourselves some borderline realistic goals, not really aligned with our real wants and needs in life. We don’t put the actual time and effort in to making those goals a reality and end up putting it all in the too hard basket.

There are a few pretty common sayings about hard work like “10,000 hours to perfect a skill” or “21 days to make/break a habit”. Now l, the reason they are common phrases is because they’re true. Its not easy getting rock hard abs, ask anyone who has them. Its not easy quitting smoking, ask anyone who’s trying or has given up. They’re big achievements that could only have been accomplished with little wins every day.

The problem with us giving up on our resolutions is that its actually our fault we fail. Then we beat ourselves up, lose all motivation and go straight back to the chocolate and beer, then, next year we do the same thing again. So how do we break the cycle?

Plan to succeed!

Every successful business on the planet sets goals using some variation of the SMART chart – Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant & Time-bound. Without any direction or accountability, you’re going to fail.

1. Set realistic goals

Be realistic… seriously. If your goal is to save for a house deposit this year, say $20,000. And you only earn $40,000 a year. You will struggle to hit that target because you won’t be able to save 50c on every $1 you make without making drastic cuts in your standard of living. That’s not to say it’s impossible, it’s actually very doable, you just need to be aware of your own willpower, needs and potential set backs.

2. Set relevant goals

I’ve always wanted a boat, and I could say one year that my new years resolution is to buy a boat and go fishing more. That’s a lovely vision, but I get sea sick so fast and really don’t have the time with a young family to spend my days off on the water fishing. It’s just not really relevant to my life now. What I do need to do is lose a couple of kilos… I can easily tie in a walk in the afternoon with the kids with my goal of losing a bit of weight. It’s relevant to my life, now.

3. Hold yourself accountable

There’s no point in setting a resolution for yourself and not having consequences when you don’t stick to it. Are you able to hold yourself accountable? or do you need to have an accountability buddy? A friend or partner or work colleague that wants to achieve a goal too, that you can check in with and keep each other on the right path.

That being said, being accountable and beating yourself up are two very different things. DON’T cut your head off because you caved and had one cigarette at a party a month in, don’t give up because you at a pint of ice cream and watched 4 hours of tv one sunday night after a long week. DON’T be hard on yourself for one slip, when you’ve been on track 90% of the time. Celebrate the daily wins.

Resolution?

Every summit has a first step, every painting has a first stroke. New Years resolutions might be a bit of a joke to most people, setting out in to the new year with good intentions to make yourself a better you.

This year stick to it! If you’ve sipped up already… so what? Reset. Start again. Try a different approach and move ahead.

Progress, not perfection, achieves goals.

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